You can listen to all advice.  You can hear people makes suggestions.  People will try and influence your decisions. People assume things that never exist.  But in all reality, it is how I will continue to take care of you, like how we were before.  Listening to people, who have no idea since, they think their experience is based on previous assessments or what they see now.  Every person is different.  Those who try and pass judgment are the ones who can’t accept their own short comings.  What matters most, is that I have continue to and will always stay by your side.  To always support you in what we do.  You most definitely need me in your life and so do I.  I listen to my heart, not fake pages on the internet or what people try and tell me.   I don’t want a desk in between us or the person who you act to be.  I need you, and you need me.  And just not for 10 minutes either.  There was a reason why the parking space was there today, so you could look out of the window and see me come in.  I felt your spirit afterwards again, Only about half when I was there and then it released to me the whole other 1/2 later in the night completely.  There is so much I want to do with you and the kids and be like how we always are.